malachi

Our Pal - Malachi T


Contact Details

C/O 12 Lott Close
Tunbridge Wells
Kent
TN4 9BF
United Kingdom


Email Pal


NB: this is a forwarding address for the Pal, we do NOT disclose home addresses

Other Information

  • Parents/Guardians - Emma and Graham
  • Interests - Likes CDs, music, anything to do with New Zealand, anything police related and police sirens, drawing, crafting, Play Doh, Mickey Mouse, giraffes, Build-A-Bear clothes for his toy giraffe, Frozen film, stickers, anything noisy! Please note Malachi is allergic to anything with strawberry or kiwi flavourings.
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  • Able to read? - Malachi is totally blind with no light perception, but can read a little Braille
  • Able to use hands? - Yes
  • Visually/hearing impaired? - Yes - can read a little Braille
  • Suffers from any developmental delay? - No

Siblings - aged 3 to 16 wishing to receive post

  • Zechariah (Zech) 13/07/2000zech
    • Interests:
      Likes Minecraft, Dr who, Pokemon, reading (action, fantasy & sci fi), football, match attacks, gaming, teddy bears, Lego, really loves Marvel!
  • Samuel 04/10/2001samuelt
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      Likes football, sport, jokes, FIFA match attack, mags/comics, lumpy from Disney!
  • Ayesha 14/07/2003Ayesha
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      Likes Nails, fashion mags, fashion design, crafting, up cycling, sewing, loves makeup, reading Tom Gates books, colouring, drawing, Lego, music, loom bands, jewellery, girly stuff!
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About - Malachi T


Please note Malachi is allergic to anything with strawberry or kiwi flavourings

Story written 2014

Malachi was born on the 4th of January 2008 and he was diagnosed at birth with neurofibromatosis type 1 (NF1). Just after his first birthday we had concerns about his development and as both of his brothers have NF we were referred to The Evalina Hospital in London for a MRI scan. Within a week the results showed they had found a tumour on his optic nerve (brain tumour), one of the largest they had seen in a child of his age. He started chemotherapy straight away with the hope of stopping the growth and saving his sight. However, after 18 months of chemo and being a very poorly boy throughout it all, they managed to halt the growth but sadly couldn’t save his sight and he went completely blind without any light perception at the age of 3.

Malachi coped really well and adjusted to life without any sight, he started nursery and really flourished and then moved onto reception in a mainstream school. The year 2013 brought new problems for Malachi as he started to get really sleepy and was complaining of pains in his head. A CT scan revealed he had enlarged ventricles and hydrocephalus was diagnosed. He had a ventriculoperitoneal shunt (VP shunt) fitted in the March. They are supposed to be very reliable but since then he has had two failures resulting in him going through two more lots of brain surgery. Thankfully he is under an amazing surgeon and this third shunt seems to have settled down well now.

Malachi recently had another planned MRI on his brain tumour (July 2014) and this has shown that his tumour has started to grow again. They are going to scan him again in September and then decide on the next course of action.

Update 7th July 2016

Was lovely to be at the party this year and so nice meeting everyone. The whole family loved it, even our son, Samuel, with Aspergers. He usually finds parties quite hard to handle but we all went home smiling.

Update 16th May 2016

Malachi is suffering with more and more seizures and is having headaches so has been in hospital.
His brain scan showed, again, enhancement but no growth!

Update 12th April 2016

Malachi is suffering from headaches and was taken into Kings where he underwent CT scans, etc. They feel it may be the tumour. He is having an urgent MRI and bloods, etc. tomorrow. Malachi is very worried and he described himself as being sad.

Update 22nd January 2016

Malachi’s tumour has enhanced again and his seizure activity is getting worse. He is having loads of endocrine tests at the moment so is a little fed up with hospitals, bless him.

All of my other children Zech, Samuel & Ayesha have now been referred to children’s mental health team as they are struggling with everything.

Special thank you to Samuel’s elf for sending a signed Charlton ball. Samuel has Aspergers and doesn’t show much emotion but went mad with excitement over this present. So a massive thank you.

Also a big thank you to Marty Longo and Skye who always remember to send Malachi smile letters.

Update 22nd October 2015

Malachi had his MRI this month which showed enhancement of his tumour. He has been very poorly and lethargic, sleeping all the day and he was rushed into hospital and ended up in HDU. He is now back home but could do with some extra smiles as life has been very disruptive for him with the uncertainty of what will now need to happen, such as chemo or possible debulk if it gets any bigger!

Malachi continues to try and boost his brothers and sister who are really struggling at the moment with us always needing to be in hospital or at appointments.

Update 6th July 2015

Malachi continues to need constant help and is having seizures, though coping well. Malachi’s tumour was stable at the last scan but they are to re-scan in September and see if it’s still the same.

Thank you for your continued support.

Update 6th May 2015

A big thank you to Skye for writing to Malachi, he loves hearing from her! He loved his good luck Tiki from New Zealand too.

Update 10th April 2015

The operation went really well, even though it was longer than normal, but they had to replace the whole shunt system. He had stomach surgery too, bless him. While under they also did the other correctional surgery that was needed!

Afterwards he started having fits so was rushed down for a CT scan to check for bleeds but thankfully it was ok. They are not sure what is causing them, so we are waiting to see a Neuro doctor this morning. He continues to be in pain today so is on morphine and very out of it, bless him. He is fitting still now, it seems to be constant, so they have ordered an urgent EEG!

Our other son’s wedding is tomorrow so please pray we make it! In recovery when he found out he’d had stomach surgery as well his response wasn’t: ‘Oh it hurts’ or ‘Why?’ It was just concern over not being able to have a bath before his brother’s wedding! His exact words: “Great I’ve got to walk down the aisle dirty now!” He never ceases to make me smile!

Thanks again for your support and prayers!

Update 9th April 2015

Malachi went for his appointment in Guy’s this morning and had some sort of seizure and vomited whilst in the consultation. It was decided it was his shunt again, so he was brought to King’s and we are once again in Lion ward!

Update 22nd March 2015

Malachi has been in hospital most of this year and has needed seven brain surgeries. This month we have been told the sad news his tumour has grown and another one has appeared and spread into the septum of the brain which is causing hydrocephalus and shunt failures. Malachi’s consultants have said they cannot operate (which they would normally do) as his is in a place where if they operated on it he would be completely brain damaged and they said he would have no quality of life. We are monitoring it at the moment and we may have to start chemo at some point in the future!

Thank you for the children’s post, especially the lovely balloons and Malachi’s regular letters from Skye, Marty Longo, and a school.

Thank you again for all the hard work you put in to this charity because it really has helped my kids and the smiles it creates have been amazing.

Update 14th December 2014

Malachi has been in hospital for emergency brain surgery. He had another shunt blockage so had emergency surgery, only to find out when he was under that he had a bleed to the brain. They put in an EVD external drain and we now may be in for Christmas as he will need more complex shunt surgery before we are allowed out.

Malachi loved the balloon he received that was delivered to the ward, thank you.

Being a part of Post Pals has brought a lot of smiles to our children’s faces.

Update 8th November 2014

We are loving Post Pals, Malachi gets so excited when the postman posts the post through the letter box. Today he received some fantastic stickers from Australia and he straight away asked for a note pad and started sticking his stickers in. He said “this is amazing mummy, I’m going to make a happy book to make me happy when I feel sad”. So he now has his own sticker happy book! Thank you Post Pals as the smile on his face is amazing and they were foam stickers which meant he could feel them!