Our Pal - Ava S


Contact Details

C/O 8 Ditton Way
Ipswich
Suffolk
IP3 8GL
United Kingdom


Email Pal


NB: this is a forwarding address for the Pal, we do NOT disclose home addresses

Other Information

  • Parents/Guardians - Debbie and Darryl
  • Interests - Ava is a huge Disney fan, from old classics to new releases. Her favourite princesses are Belle, Cinderella and Moana. She enjoys a good sniff of smelly hand creams/body lotions as she has daily massages to relax her tight muscles. Sensory lights, story books and butterflies are also her favourites.
  • Favourite Colour - Purple
  • Able to read? - No
  • Able to use hands? - No
  • Visually/hearing impaired? - No
  • Suffers from any developmental delay? - Yes, but understands everything you say to her.

Siblings - aged 3 to 16 wishing to receive post

  • Freya 02/05/2005
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      **PEANUT ALLERGY** happy to receive chocolate/sweets but must be peanut free. All other nuts are fine. She loves horses and craft and Stitch.Horses and craft
  • Ruby 12/09/2012
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      Ruby loves pretty much everything girlie. Her biggest interests right now are fairies, Barbies, LOL dolls, reading and Lego friends/Disney.
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About - Ava S


Story Written 2018

Ava was starved of oxygen around the time of her birth. She was extremely poorly as a newborn and was rushed to intensive care for specialist treatment. Unfortunately, Ava sustained a massive brain injury and suffered lots of seizures. Her prognosis was not good, so on the advice of the hospital we switched off Ava’s life support machine and prepared for her to pass away. However, this determined little girl decided that it wasn’t her time to go and has decided to show the world just how much love and joy she can bring into everyone’s lives.

Due to the brain damage Ava has, she can’t walk, talk, swallow safely or use her body the way it was supposed to. She requires full adult support 24/7. She is fed through a gastrostomy tube into her tummy, is suctioned frequently to remove the saliva from her mouth and airways, and is oxygen dependent.

Ava has fought sepsis three times and has spent time in intensive care due to a twisted colon, which was removed and she lived with a colostomy bag for nine months before surgery successfully rejoined her bowel, and then again for a respiratory arrest.

Ava has lots of medications during the day and often uses a nebuliser to keep her lungs healthy.

Despite all of these problems, Ava is a very happy and sociable little girl who is loved by many.

Update 7th March 2019

Since joining Post Pals we have been so lucky to receive the most amazing post. Every piece is read and truly appreciated. It has made such a difference in the girls’ mental health to know people think about them and really care. I don’t think we’ve ever seen them smile so much!

Huge heartfelt thanks go to:
Becky B – your postcards are just divine.
Victoria for the Valentine’s balloons and post.
Dottie the Dalmatian for my new teddy friend we’ve named Winter and your picture updates.
Fiona and Andy for the postcards.
Narelle for the most Ava appropriate monthly parcels.
Tasmin for Ruby’s monthly parcel. We loved the pictures of your dogs Sophie and Sapphire. We have a little dog called Bruiser. He’s almost 8 years old and is a Chorkie.
Audrey you sent the most wonderful Christmas book from NZ and recent postcard.
Amy G for Freya’s monthly parcel, she’s been meaning to write a thank you back but has had a huge increase in homework since starting year 9 at school.
Emma, Geraldine, Anna, Bear Hugs and Project Parent for your post and gifts.                                                                                                                            And to everyone else I’m bound to have forgotten including scout, beaver, brownies guide and school/college groups, your post has been wonderfully uplifting.

Ava has probably had one of her best winters ever in terms of her health!
Her Dad and I have worked extremely hard on keeping her chest as healthy as possible with strict physio, antibiotic nebuliser treatment and deep suctioning routine which was a success. She remains continuously on oxygen but only on a small amount, which for winter is fantastic.
Seizures aren’t usually too troublesome for Ava but unfortunately we had one episode of her emergency buccolam medication not stopping the seizure so we had to call 999 and ended up with a hospital visit.
This week Ava didn’t cope very well with one of the viral infections going about so ended up with another hospital trip and course of antibiotics, but she’s recovering well.

Ava attends a local special needs school. She absolutely loves being with her peers and thrives in the classroom when well. She’s learning to communicate on an eye gaze machine that she controls with her eyes. This technology is fantastic at allowing someone who cannot control any of their body movements the chance to speak.
We’ve had many appointments over the last two months: a respiratory review with a consultant at Addenbrokes, and a physio review where Ava has been measured up for her new Lycra suit and gloves. Once wearing these items she will be known as “Ava the incredible” as she’ll look like another member of the “Incredibles” family (Disney).

Sadly we had to say goodbye to Ava’s Great-Grandad as he passed away on New Years Eve, just a few months before his 90th birthday.
Ruby too has been busy, she’s been having regular hearing tests for the past year as she has hearing loss in her left ear. She finally had her hearing aid fitted and has coped amazingly with it and it’s made such a difference in her hearing!